“Some of the best motivation in the life is trying to impress a girl.”
One must impress oneself, before trying to impress a girl. In other words, it means that you should sound convincing to yourself first. If you want to successfully impress her, be original and genuine. Most of the guys try to project themselves emulating others but fail miserably. You should not sound fake or boring while conversing. Here is how you can impress a girl with your communication skills.
When you walk down to her confidently at your fixed rendezvous, you must smile and say ‘hi I am so & so’. Then try breaking the ice by small talks like ‘hope I’m not late’, ‘How is your evening going?’, etc. Offer her a drink, if she accepts alcoholic drink, then your conversation would be easier to make.
Thereafter, you can add, ‘I’m happy that you are here’ followed by talking on common interests, common places, and common views. Your skill of communication should focus on not offending her but giving her maximum for her time with you.
Be a Perfect Gentleman
Play your gentleman’s role with the old world charm. You don’t need only the verbal communication skills but also you need to communicate with the better skills in mannerisms. Just take your unhurried time in making her comfortable. Hold the door, give her a chair, and polite talks should work to make her feel like a princess.
A good communication is all about the attitude. A good attitude towards the girl is much better to impress her than the thousand words spoken with skill. In a way, your words and actions both require greater skills.
The key is in your hands to open the door of her heart for you. The art of impressing a girl is to impress her without seeming to make any obvious effort. Girls genuinely love those who are honest, unpretentious, and grounded.
Claiming what you are not can land you in a soup sometime. If you succeed in wooing her with the false claims, she will expect the same from you in future also. In a nutshell, be your genuine self and let the destiny decide for you.
Education & Intellect
Most of the girls are educated today and expect some intellectual skills from their dates. Try to develop all round knowledge including world politics, sports, and information on books, etc. Being a good communicator helps in making an everlasting impression on a girl, besides succeeding in all walks of life.
Pay Complete Attention
A woman loves attention and more so when the guy shows empathy and understanding to her stands. Your communication skills are useful but the way you pay her attention makes your ‘claim to fame’ more solid. Your queries and chats should be focused on her, not only with the spoken words but with your body language too. When she talks or when you speak, pay her your unwavering attention. Always ask thoughtful questions to build a common connection.
Ask Right Questions
Your communication skills are not all about what you talk about yourself in entire meeting but also asking some discreet questions to know her better. You can skillfully ask her about her friends she hangs out with, her fun activities during weekends, her other exciting projects besides her usual work, and more meaningfully, about her weekend plans.
Open new vistas and resolutions for your next meetings that she would look forward with excitement. Of course, your communication skills would be a big help in accomplishing the task.